All three of these women who will stand (and have constantly stood) by me are unique, incredible individuals. I want that reflected in what they wear for our wedding. While it is lovely when the 'maids look identical, it's just not for me. To make sure they feel like their amazing selves, they will be largely responsible for their attire, though I'm always availabe for comment!
I’d like them to pick something in which they’ll feel comfortable. I’d also really like it if they could wear it again. It would be nice if they were able to dress in their own style, but also reflect a sense of cohesion. In order to accomplish this, I decided to go with the ever-faithful Little Black Dress. It should be nice, but not too expensive (as all three of them are graduating college in May). To increase the odds of everything looking consistent I think I might pick a fabric, but let them take it from there. Cotton and jersey seem too casual, but I like a few of the silk ones I've seen. Here’s a few I’ve found so far…
I’m pretty sure that I’ll just ask them to wear black shoes, but I really don’t think I care. It might be nice if they wear their hair up, but only because I’m sure it will be more comfortable should it be very warm, as it often is in July.
Something else I’ve been debating is if they should wear any accessories. Perhaps that would pull it together? I love these necklaces I found on Etsy and I think they might make the perfect “statement” piece. Here's one I found in
dorelabear's shop:
We'll see what they have to say the next time we get together. That being said, if I don't get them for the ladies, I might get one for me!
